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| Any enquiries for baptisms, please phone Reverend Ann Hitchin 457552. Parents will be asked to come to a Baptism preparation evening ( held every other month) at which we explore the symbolism involved in the service of Baptism, discuss what it means to be Baptised, and book the date for your child's baptism. Baptisms will take place within the usual morning service, ie. if on the 1st Sunday of the month at the 11am All Age service, if on other Sundays at 9.30am Sung Eucharist. Dates will be made at the discretion of the incumbent after consulting with parents. |
Everyone who is unmarried (or widowed) and who lives in the parish has a right to be married in this church. Anyone who lives elsewhere but is a member of St. Ippolyts church. Brides (and in exceptional cases grooms) who live and customarily worship elsewhere may be married provided that their family home is in the parish. Alternatively such people living elsewhere, but with a particular connection here, may be married by special licence. Those who have been divorced and whose previous spouse is still alive and who still reside in the parish should consult the vicar, who has discretion in the matter. |
Who By ? Normally the
vicar will conduct marriages. While couples may wish to invite another
minister to have some part in the service, they may do so only with the
express permission of the vicar, and after he has had a chance to discuss
the service with the proposed minister. While St. Ippolyts church is open
to ministers of other traditions, they must be sensitive to the rites
and ceremonies of the Church of England |
When
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Those intending
to be married here will normally give good notice, as they have other
arrangements to make. The minimum notice is three clear Sundays before
the proposed date, to enable the banns to be called. |
How much Does it cost ? Details available from the vicar. |
Enabling the Marriage
to Happen The normal way of enabling the marriage to happen is by the 'calling of banns'. On three Sundays within three months of the proposed wedding the couple's banns are called during the main Sunday morning service (9.30 or 11.00am) and must also be called in the parish where the other party lives, or is on the electoral roll. In every case the banns must be called in the parish of both bride and groom. Provided that 'no objection is alleged', the marriage may take place here. Couples are strongly urged to be present on at least one occasion so that the congregation can see who they are and join in praying for their marriage. The banns certificate from elsewhere must be shown to the officiating minister here. In certain
circumstances couples not involved in divorce may be married by 'common
licence' or 'special licence' |
Preparation and Rehearsal The vicar will arrange a meeting to discuss the marriage and the practical arrangements. There is also a wedding rehearsal, on a convenient date a few days before the marriage, involving those with an active part in the ceremony, by which time fees must be paid. |
| Order of Service
It is not essential to have an Order of Service printed, but if there is one, it should be discussed beforehand with the officiating minister and a draft copy checked by the minister and organist before going to print. Copyright for the order of service is the responsibility of the couple to be married. The church holds a CCL licence which should cover the majority of requirements. Copyright issues should be discussed with the organist. Whenever a hymn/song, for which the copyright still exists, is reproduced, it is essential to state immediately below the words the name of the author, the year the copyright began and the name of the owner - in the following form:
If only one copyright hymn/song is reproduced, the above information should be followed by:
If there are two or more copyright hymns/songs reproduced, the following acknowledgement should appear at the end of the sheet: All songs covered by the Christian Copyright Licensing have been reproduced under CCL Licence no 283053 Whenever material from the
Alternative Service Book is reproduced, the following acknowledgement
should appear at the end of the text: If material from Common Worship is used the following acknowledgement shall appear at the end of the sheet: Common
Worship: Marriage material from which is included in this service is copyright
© The Archbishops’ Council 2000
Couples should
also agree in advance which marriage service they want, and whether to
have one ring or two. |
Music
It is our custom at St Ippolyts to plan the music for your wedding well in advance and couples are encouraged to contact the Organist, Derek Cann (Hitchin 453186) to arrange a meeting to discuss the requirements. The most suitable times are after either Morning or Evening Services. It is important that the form of service has been agreed with the minister so that the music can be fitted into the framework of the service. We use the 'Common Praise’ hymnbook. A couple having a printed service sheet may choose other suitable material for singing. Couples may also wish to bring in solo singers or instrumentalists and this should be discussed with the organist who will advise on what is possible and any extra fees payable. Other points to be borne in mind are:
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Ushers They signal to the organist when the bride is ready to enter the Church by operating the signal light switch by the south door and checking that this has been acknowledged by the organist. If bells have been requested, they ensure that any guests sitting in the Baptistry area are advised that they will be asked to vacate their places and move to the north aisle during the last hymn, so that the bell ringers can gain access to the ringing area. Advise people, if required, of the availability of the churchyard toilets |
| Photography and sound or video recording There is to
be no photography during the service. It is the business of the ushers
to remove photographers from the church before it begins, and to see that
the bride, once arrived at the lych gate, comes in on time. Any delay
for photography will mean the omission of one or more hymns. Given half
an inch, professional wedding photographers will take an all, and spoil
the day for everybody. In planning your wedding, check with the vicar,
before commissioning, that the photographer of your choice is on the parish
approved list. Without such consent, no photography will be allowed until
after the ceremony. |
Confetti
As the Churchyard is consecrated ground only biodegradable (not paper) confetti can be thrown in the Churchyard, but confetti can be thrown as the Bride and Groom leave the Lych Gate. A returnable deposit is now charged to cover possible needs for clearance of paper confetti from the churchyard. |
Flowers
The Friends
of St Ippolyts put an arrangement of flowers by the altar and pulpit each
week except during Advent and Lent, when there are none. A flower rota
can be found in the church porch, and the bride is invited to approach
the ladies on it at the date of the marriage. If she wants additional
displays she will be expected to supply and arrange them herself.
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| Parking Parking is not permitted outside the lych gate. The school car park should be used (except Monday - Friday in term time) and the School Governors have requeste that a fee be paid directly to them. Please contact the school secretary on Hitchin 432080. |
Collection
During the service there is no collection. However, couples are encouraged to name a charity of their choice, to which the proceeds of a plate by the door will be split equally with the church. |
Policy It is the policy of the Parochial
Church Council to safeguard the welfare of all children involved with
organisations responsible to it. |
The Aims The aims of the Policy are threefold:
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Implementation The PCC will ensure that all those who have responsibility to the PCC for children will have undergone the following procedure
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Review This Policy will be subject to annual review The person responsible to the PCC for implementation to be the Roger Cox (Churchwarden), H 432445 Any suspicions or allegations will be handled according to the
recommendations of PAGC |